Kuoa Single Mama ni sawa na kunywa soda iliyofunguliwa na kuonjwa

Kuoa Single Mama ni sawa na kunywa soda iliyofunguliwa na kuonjwa

Haaa acheni utani na single mama bhana kuna mdada toka azalishwe Kwa bhati mbaya (alibakwa Kwa madai ake) asee nmeenjoy nae vya kutosha!!! yan na ananikubar kinomaaa mi cjaona tofaut yeyte ile na asie zaa....kwanza mtot mnato ypo tight haaa ujanishawish bado,
 
Loftins said:
Kutafuta mwanamke sahihi wakunilelea waigutu wawili ambao ni wadogo ila nilimpata na anawalea vizuri tu.
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wengine ni wakubwa na hawaishi Tanzania wanajiweza wanajua kwanza baba ao zimepunguaga za kichwani
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zimepungua kichwani kivipi tena[emoji2][emoji2][emoji2].umezaa na mzungu nini?
 
Back to my point.

1. Rule Numbre Uno : NEVER EVER DATE/ MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER ( there is no exception to this general rule )


2. Rule Number Two: If you think like you need to marry a single mother then you have to refer to rule number one.

From the mouth of a woman who is a single mother: UCHUNGU NITAKAO UPATA SIKU MWANANGU AKINILETEA MKWILIMA AMBAE NI SINGLE MOTHER NI SAWA NA UCHUNGU NITAKAO UPATA SIKU NIKISIKIA MWANANGU WA KIUME AMEKUWA SHOGA..

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Widow's are here by excluded in this thread.


KWANINI NINASEMA " NEVER MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER?".

Nimejiuliza maswali yafuatayo:.

WHY IS SHE A SINGLE MOTHER?

The answer is only one here .

She is a single mother because she has broke up with the father of her child (ren)


WHY HAS SHE BROKE UP WITH THE FATHER OF HER CHILD?

There are 2 answers here :

1. The father of her child has left her.

2. She has left the father of her child.

Tuchambue sababu hizo hapo Juu moja baada ya nyingine.


1. TUSEME THE FATHER OF HER CHILDREN HAS LEFT HER.

Hapa Kuna swali jingine la kujiuliza.

WHY DOES HE LEFT HER ?

1. He left her because she is an asshole. She is a problem. Jamaa kaona dah pamoja na kwamba Mwanamke huyu kanizalia mtoto. Damu yangu. Nyama yangu. Mifupa yangu. Fahari yangu. But no way siwezi kuwa na huyu Mwanamke no matter what.

Kama Mwanaume alie zaa nae mtoto au watoto kaona Bora aiache damu yake ikalelewe na Baba WA kambo kuliko kuishi na Mwanamke huyo walee pamoja watoto wao then Jua Mwanamke huyo ana Tatizo kubwa Sana ambalo wewe , wewe ambae sio mzazi mwenzake huwezi Kuli handle. NI vigumu Sana Kwa " MWANAUME" kukubali kuwaacha watoto wake waende kulelewa na Mwanaume mwingine wakati yeye akiwa hai. NI vigumu Sana. Wanaume tunapenda kuishi na wanawake ambao tumezaa nao watoto ili watoto wetu wakue Chini ya mikono Salama. Ukiona mpaka Mwanaume anafikia kufanya maamuzi magumu kiasi hiki basi Jua Kuna Tatizo kubwa Sana kwa upande wa mwanamke huyo. Tatizo kubwa mno..


KAMA ALIKUWA AMEOLEWA NA KUPEWA TALAKA TATIZO NDIO KUBWA MARADUFU.

Ukiachana na Mwanamke mnagawana Mali na utatakiwa kuwa unatoa matunzo Kwa watoto kila mwezi. ( Ulaya/Marekani ndio balaa ZAIDI Kwa sababu gharama za Child support zipo Juu )

Kama Mwanaume ametalikiana na MKE wake tafsiri yake nyingine NI kwamba " AMEKUBALI KULIPA MAMILIONI YA PESA ILI ASI ISHI NA HUYO MWANAMKE. NA AMEKUBALI KUWA ANATOA PESA KILA MWEZI ILI ASIICHI NA HUYO MWANAMKE.


I am paying a millions of my hard earned money in order to not be living with this woman. And I will be paying other thousands monthly only for me to be staying away from this woman. And you think I have got what it take to stay with this kind of a woman? Are you serious?

Ngoja niiweke kwenye mfano huu:

There is a restaurant. They are selling foods.

I am paying money in order for me to not eat the food in the said restaurant.

What make you to pay for something that some one is paying money not to have it?

MTU amekubali Mali zake ziuzwe zigawanywe ili asi ishi na Mwanamke huyo wewe kitu gani kinakufanya uone unaweza kumudu kuishi nae kama MTU Amelipa mamilioni ili ASI ISHI nae? Tafakari.



HE HAS LEFT HER BECAUSE HE IS AN ASS HOLE.

Ooh unajua huyu Mwanamke Hana matatizo kabisa. Jamaa ndio mwenye matatizo. Alipo ona kampa mimba akamkimbia. Jamaa ndio zake huyo Bana . Anazalisha mabinti halafu anawatelekeza.. ( This is what you think ?)

Okay let's say hivi ndivyo unavyo fikiria. Then swali la kujiuliza hapa ni : IF THE GUY IS AN ASS HOLE. THEN WHY DID SHE BE WITH HIM? WHY DID SHE TRUST HIM TO THE EXTENT OF CARRYING A BABY FOR HIM?

The answer is ; She was with him because she is an asshole too. A smart woman can never trust an asshole to the extent of carrying his baby.

She was with her because she likes/loves the bad guys... Bad guys don't know how to treat ladies. They just hit and run. You going to marry her make you a nice guy. And if you are a nice guy she thinks you are foolish guy. Foolish enough to play a nice step daddy to the kids of a bad guy who don't give a damn about his own kids. Funny enough you the foolish guy do not even take good care of Ur own biological kids or people who really matters to you like your mother.

Kama huyo bad guy asinge mzalisha na kumdump asingekua na wewe cause amekuwa na wewe baada ya kuumizwa na the bad guy.

So she just use you as an escape root to escape thru the reality ( of being dumped by the bad boy ) thru imagination.

You are not her type. She loves the bad guy. And chances her she will be taking your and give to the bad guy and the bad guy will continue to fvck your regular beach that Ur calling a wife with Ur own money. Poor nice guy.

TUSEME SHE IS THE ONE WHO HAS LEFT THE FATHER OF HIS CHILD..

Why did she left him ?

1. She left him because He turned out to be an asshole.

Unajua mwanzoni demu hakujua kama Jamaa NI asshole. Alikuja kijua baadae baada ya Jamaa kubadilika. Jamaa alianza kuonyesha makucha baada ya MKE kujifungua.

Alikuwa ana mnyanyasa na kumdhalilisha.

Alikuwa anampiga.

Swali la kujiuliza ni ? Why was her with him on first place?

Jibu lako: KWA SABABU HAKUJUA.

Kama Hilo ndio jibu lako then SHE IS A POOR JUDGE OF CHARACTER. A poor judge of character is a person who is characterized by making poor life decisions.

She made a very bad decision by carrying a baby of an asshole guy. Now she has also made another poor decision by being with you because you too is an asshole ( a foolish nice guy who is just nice )


NEXT TIME SHE WILL MAKE ANOTHER POOR DECISION WHICH WILL INVOLVE YOU. I AM TALKING TO YOU . YES IT IS YOU.

YOU WILL BE THE PART OF HER POOR DECISION.

JUST LIKE HIS KID(s) YOU TOO WILL BE A VICTIM TO HER POOR DECISIONS.



Sababu nyingine: SHE HAS LEFT HIM KWA SABABU JAMAA AMEISHIWA HELA. AU AMEPATA MATATIZO KAMA KUUGUA, ETC. ( U need my explanation in this )

SABABU ZIPO NYINGI SANA. NYINGINE WATAONGEZEA WADAU.


Relationships with single mothers are always not working. Angalia mifano maarufu. Shilole, Zari,and others.
U can never start a family with a single mother. Because she already has a family which consists of her and her children. So when you marry a single mother you just join her family and not start a family with her. ( A REALLY MAN NEED TO START HIS OWN FAMILY AND NOT TO JOIN ANOTHER MAN'S FAMILY )

If a woman has a kid, brother don't you realize that is another man's woman/wife? Since when is it cool to sleep with another man's wife? I know it may be difficult to get a virgin girl but please sir she should not be a Single mother.


Single mothers should remain singles forever. Just having boyfriends but never get married

Never Marry a single mother.

Most single mothers are CHARACTERLESS WOMEN.

I know there might be a lot of good single mothers out there. Single mother who can make a good wife material but excuse me, madams, I am following the rules . The rule say you should never marry a single mother. Some cultures blv that the destinies of single mothers are controlled by the SINGLEMOTHERHOOD STRONGHOLD which is a very powerful stronghold.
 
LIKUD said:
What make you to pay for something that some one is paying money not to have it?
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Marriage is a contract.
There is always a room for opting out of a contract due to different reasons. One of them could be you didn't know well your preference when you committed yourself in the said contract or you can't afford it anymore.
And that may not be due to the shortcomings of the other part in the contract, how many times have we seen someone has asked for something which they really didn't know it's test? Without knowing how much it is going to cost them?
But the same thing could be other people's favourite thing, let say it a drink or a food, e.t.c. What you can't afford is what I can afford easily.
It's a matter of test, And we all know different people have different test buds.

The key WORDS are PREFERENCE, TEST BUDS, CHOICE...., ...,
Kitu kibaya kwako siyo lazima kiwe kibaya kwa wengine, ni suala la chaguo(CHOICE) na mapenzi binafsi (PREFERENCE) tu.
Sometimes guys divorce their wives because they can't afford them due to their own shortcomings be it economically, or cultural differences, mental issues, healthy issues, e.t.c .

Unaweza kumshindwa mwanamke sababu she has great appetite for sex while you have libido problems. Whose problem in that case?

Let's not act like NUMPTIES by trying to generalize everything.
 
Titicomb said:
Marriage is a contract.
There is always a room for opting out of a contract due to different reasons. One of them could be you didn't know well your preference when you committed yourself in the said contract or you can't afford it anymore.
And that may not be due to the shortcomings of the other part in the contract, how many times have we seen someone has asked for something which they really didn't know it's test? Without knowing how much it is going to cost them?
But the same thing could be other people's favourite thing, let say it a drink or a food, e.t.c. What you can't afford is what I can afford easily.
It's a matter of test, And we all know different people have different test buds.

The key WORDS are PREFERENCE, TEST BUDS, CHOICE...., ...,
Kitu kibaya kwako siyo lazima kiwe kibaya kwa wengine, ni suala la chaguo(CHOICE) na mapenzi binafsi (PREFERENCE) tu.
Sometimes guys divorce their wives because they can't afford them due to their own shortcomings be it economically, or cultural differences, mental issues, healthy issues, e.t.c .

Unaweza kumshindwa mwanamke sababu she has great appetite for sex while you have libido problems. Whose problem in that case?

Let's not act like NUMPTIES by trying to generalize everything.
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Shauri yako
 
mkuu umetoa sababu nyingi lkn nikweli mwanao akiowa aliyezaa uchungu wake nisaw na mwanao akiwa shoga?unahakika hao watoto ulizaa na mkeo wote niwako?
 
Ila wanaume mnasalitiana. Sisi tuliambiana, mwenye kibamia, asiye na pesa MARUFUKU! Sijawahi sikia tukilalamika kwakweli zaidi tu nasikia upande wenu mkilia na vibamia na ukapuku.

Ila wenzetu kila siku mnaimbishana wimbo ule ule na bado tu hamsikilizani. Kila kukicha single mothers wanaolewa. Nini shida??
 
Zurie said:
Ila wanaume mnasalitiana. Sisi tuliambiana, mwenye kibamia, asiye na pesa MARUFUKU! Sijawahi sikia tukilalamika kwakweli zaidi tu nasikia upande wenu mkilia na vibamia na ukapuku.

Ila wenzetu kila siku mnaimbishana wimbo ule ule na bado tu hamsikilizani. Kila kukicha single mothers wanaolewa. Nini shida??
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There is a lot of foolish guys on the planet so never be surprised
 
Zurie said:
Ila wanaume mnasalitiana. Sisi tuliambiana, mwenye kibamia, asiye na pesa MARUFUKU! Sijawahi sikia tukilalamika kwakweli zaidi tu nasikia upande wenu mkilia na vibamia na ukapuku.

Ila wenzetu kila siku mnaimbishana wimbo ule ule na bado tu hamsikilizani. Kila kukicha single mothers wanaolewa. Nini shida??
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Wasukuma wanatuangusha sana.
Wako tayari kuoa single mother ili mradi mweupe kuliko kuoa fresh wife ambaye ni black
 
Umemchukulia shilole kama case study lakini umechanganya maana kuna SHILOLE na single mom.
Kuhusu kutokumuoa shilole nakubali.
Kuhusu kutooa single mom nakataa.

Jana tumecheza harusi ya single mom.

Mdada mrembo mwenyewe mwenye dimples zake ni daktari.
Mkaka ni mlogistics.

LIKUD unaandika mtandaoni mtaani wenzako wanaoa.
 
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